Questions for Parents, Help me out – so I can help you!

Hi there mom or dad.  I want to ask you for some feedback.  Answer any of the following questions if you are willing so that I may better serve those like you that are in that stage of life of raising children/preteens/teens.  Thank you in advance for your input and vulnerability.  I am honored. Email me your responses or respond on my blog page @   (email:

  1. What is the hardest part of raising boys or girls when dealing with the topic of sex?
  2. What is your biggest fear about addressing anything around the topic of sex with your children/preteens/teens?
  3. What tools or needs do you have to feel better prepared to address the topic of sex and sexuality with your children?
  4. At what age do you feel you should start these conversations?
  5. Who is more comfortable talking about sex and babies and body changes with your children – husband or wife?  Who should be doing it?
  6. When and how do you address the topic of pornography with your sons?  and daughters?
  7. What are your limits and what are your struggles with devices (phones, tablets)?
  8. What permissions and/or limitations do you make or feel like you should make for social media with your preteens/teens?
  9. What other questions do you have that you might want to ask a counselor (that’s me)?
  10. How can I serve you as you serve your family well?

Thanks for your emails and responses.  I am looking forward to working with your answers and addressing these topics very soon.


Dr. Gilbert